A moment they are fine, and the next? The world is crashing down on them. Your girlfriend might be crying, screaming and stamping her foot like an overly pampered brat. What on Earth happen? Women will forever be complex creatures and there's no point thinking that one day we will understand their way. But, now, we are decoding 10 things women say and what they really mean.
What women say: 'I'm not upset.'
Be aware, then women say this, they are a thousand miles from being okay. What she really means is, she is still upset over the issue both of you were talking about. Also, she is embarrassed or too angry to carry on with your 'discussion'/'argument'. When you encounter this, tell her, let her know that ' I know you too well and i know you are not fine. I just want to help you and sort this situation out, but i can't until you let me know what's wrong. '
What women say: 'It's up to you.'
CAUTION, you are in a dangerous territory if your girl says that 'its up to you'. This is an 'examination' and your decision is going to be judge. The chances are if she says it's up to you, you either the first choice, the thing you want to do ( going to a bar with friends and watching the game ) or the second choice, which is to show that you are a committed, caring boyfriend, but won't be something you particularly want to do. A decision have to be made. Weigh up the consequences of doing what you want against the pleasure you will get.
What women say 'I didn't mean anything' :
If the love of your life cheats on you and say it didn't mean anything, she is lying. She has realised her mistake and knows that you're the one she wants now, but for women sex rarely means nothing. she might have slept with that guy because she had feelings for him, or maybe because she's miserable with you, but either way there was a reason and it is a big deal.
What women say 'I'll just have a look'
When hearing 'I'll just have a look', cancel all your plans immediately because for the rest of the day you're going to be standing outside the shop that your girl's just gone into. Even if her intentions are pure , once inside she will get distracted and, because she knows you'll be feeling uncomfortable and embarrassed to ask the staff if they have seen you or wander into the fitting room. she knows that she's safe and can spend up to an hour or more buying the same outfit that she owns already.
What women say 'of course you're not fat'
You might just be ending up what you want to hear. you cannot trust her answer. All women are sensitive to the topic on body issues, so if you would to ask her if you have been piling on the pounds or that you were going grey, they would never tell you that you are. If you need an honest opinion, ask a guy friend.
Await for part ( 2 ) !
XOXO.
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