DECODING WOMEN ( 2 )

Ten things women say and what they really mean
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What women say: ‘You don’t care’   

No matter how many times you hear this it still hurts. Of course you care. However, she knows that you love her; when she says ‘You don’t care’ what she actually means is that she feels like you haven’t shown you care about her in a while. Next time she says this shower your girl in love, kisses and hugs and she’ll feel reassured.What women say: ‘Am I fat?’  

When she asks whether she is fat or not a simple no answer will not suffice because your girl isn’t actually asking whether you think she’s fat or not. What your girl is in fact asking is whether you think she’s attractive or not. The next time your girl asks you this question tell her – without any hesitation – that of course she’s not fat and that you find her so hot you sometimes can’t think about anything else but her.

What women say: ‘We’ll see...’   

If the words ‘We’ll see’ are spoken to you at the end of a conversation then you should know that what your partner really means is that she doesn’t want to continue this conversation, but that the answer is a definite no. When your girl says this to you she’s secretly hoping that she’ll delay you enough so that you’ll forget about whatever it was that you wanted in the first place.

What women say: ‘I don’t feel like having sex with you right now’   

Now, this phrase is a lot different from its close relation: ‘I don’t feel like sex right now’. If your girl says that she doesn’t want sex right now but puts the emphasis on the ‘with you’ part, then you know that what she actually means is that she is unhappy and that you’ve done something wrong. Unlike you, if your girl is angry or upset with you she won’t want to jump into bed and will keep you away until you’ve made it up to her.

What women say: ‘Did you hear that?’

You’re just slipping into a great dream when your girl turns over in bed and whispers in your ear ‘Did you hear that?’ With all your might you try not to wake up, but you quickly plunge back into reality. So, why does your girl ask this just as you are nodding off? She’s bored and fed up that you always manage to sink soundly into sleep before she does.

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